When we put our first home up for sale in December of 2010 I thought we had it all figured out. We had our sights on moving to Wilkesboro, NC and renovating an awesome live/work space where we could have an awesome studio and modern flat. Despite the horrible housing market we knew how much we wanted for our house, when was the ideal time for it to sale, how much we would have in our pockets to put down on the new place, etc, etc. Of course being a total Type A personality I had a plan A,B,C in place. My biggest and only fear was of the house selling in June, the absolute busiest wedding month of the year, when I simply could not squeeze another hour into the day for packing on top of shooting and editing. What I could not and did not plan was how utterly emotional the whole process would become or how much it would open my eyes to the work God was doing all along the way.
Ryan and I bought our first house together on August 22, 2004. It was cute and needed work but even then the deal I thought was to good to possibly be true. I remember being a leader on a youth mission trip one late night in Pittsburgh asking the youth pastor (who happened to be the same man who married us a year earlier) if we were making a mistake. Could this possibly be what God wanted for us, did we deserve it? After he laughed at me, he reassuringly put my mind at ease. We worked alongside family and friends for months renovating and improving and making our own mark on it. The major work continued room by room through December 2009. 7 years later there wasn’t a room or a wall that we hadn’t changed in one way or another.
What I learned is that Ryan and I made a great team. That we weren’t always going to agree on the process of getting from point A to point B. That major arguments would happen when were utterly exhausted. That laughter in the rooms we made sounded more beautiful. That I had the vision for the finished product and Ryan had the talent of a great handy-man and carpenter and could make my visions a reality. (I still think he can have a show on HGTV.) What I also learned is that all the labor and memories we made in that house made it harder to say goodbye.
Here are just a few of the major renovation before and after shots. Keep in mind we did all the work ourselves with some help from friends and family.
When the offer came through in late July with the closing date set for three short weeks later on August 19th (within 2 days of being exactly 7 years from the date we bought it) I suddenly went into a state of shock. All those well-thought plans seemed more like hazy dreams. The troops around me, mainly Ryan and my Mom, rallied to keep me on track. Once again looking back on it the deal seemed to good to be true. Now I know I was never really in control of the situation. What I had thought would be best for us wasn’t at all. What God had planned for us was so much greater. For example, there is no other time in the entire year that we have 3 consecutive weeks with no photo jobs on the schedule! If you had an hour of free time I could bore you with the long list of items that shouldn’t have happened or worked in our favor but they did.
The following shot was taken after a long hot day of packing on the very last day in the house. The trailer and cars were fully loaded and all that was left was for us and the animals to load up and hit the road for the 104 mile trip to the new place we would call home.
I cried and I still cry which even seems silly to me when the outcome is exactly what we wanted. I miss the place we called home and where we made so many of our first memories. We don’t yet have a location in Wilkesboro and Ryan is still working in Charlotte. We don’t have as much time together but I know all this is only temporary. Our dreams are being fulfilled without us even knowing. Seeing it happen and now fully trusting that God has it all planned out for us makes it much easier to relax and enjoy the ride.
Now that things are somewhat settled we are taking on the Fall photography schedule and looking forward to sharing the art that we create and the passion that drives it. Sorry for the extended break.
For some reason we have the opportunity to photograph more girls than guys for family portraits. So when Mom, Luann said to us “I want you to take pictures of my boys” (who happen to race motocross, are super cute, and need portfolios). We said YES PLEASE!
What impressed us most, Frank and Nick came out of their house and were the first to introduce themselves and offer their hands for a shake. How many 9-14 year olds do you know that do this with adults??? They were so polite, social, and were naturals, totally comfortable in their own skin! We could photograph these guys for hours and we did.
This is not your typical portrait of a child or high school senior pics kind of session. This is what happens during a Pixels On Paper portrait session! As long as you keep sending us girls and GUYS to photograph we’ll keep making magic happen.
The best part was seeing these guys in their own element surrounded by their sport, their hobby, and their passion. These two are into motocross and are traveling the circuit. When on the bikes they get serious and are totally Bad A**. Keep your eyes out in the future for them in the magazines.
Check out our website and Facebook pages for more creative photography during family portraits and senior pics.
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Mother’s Day is May 8th! And we’ve prepared a special package for those looking to give Mom a unique gift that she will truly enjoy. We’re helping to make shopping easy this year.
For only $200 you get a photo session with Pixels On Paper that can be scheduled anytime NOW THROUGH JULY, plus a custom framed limited edition 5×7 canvas print, plus an accordion brag book, plus a disk of your favorite Facebook pics ready to share online, plus all your pics posted in an online gallery to share with friends and family!
These sessions are open to: Mom + Kids, Whole Family, or Just Kids.
Purchase must take place before May 5th so that we can prepare your special gift package all wrapped with the details and ready for you to give to Mom on her special day. This offer is for a limited time, so book now to make sure you’re in on the deal. Call 704-641-1131 or email us to purchase!
Email this to your kids or significant other just so they get the hint!
If you’ve never had a portrait session with Pixels On Paper, you’re in for a real treat. We have a way of making kids and adults comfortable in front of our camera. We capture both candid and posed moments with a unique style. We WON’T use boring studio backdrops or put you in cheesy positions. We WILL use beautiful outdoor locations, capture light and color in the most stunning way, and make sure you have as much fun as we do.
Here is a sample of some of our recent Mom Photos for your viewing pleasure. Be sure to check out other photos in our website gallery.
There is no way after posting the best of 2010 wedding photographs that we could NOT post the best of our 2010 portrait photographs.
We’re passionate about everything we do when there is a camera in our hands but especially about portrait sessions. It’s a rare opportunity to get to know who is in front of our camera when everything is calm (relatively speaking), a schedule isn’t dictating how long we have, and the creative possibilities are unlimited.
The best moments are when we know we got it, that one shot that captures an overwhelming emotion, a moment in time that will never be repeated, a scene that happened all on its own with absolutely no effort. It always happens. We don’t know when or where but it makes us giddy and forever grateful that God entrusted us with this gift. Oh yes, we really do have the best jobs imaginable!
We’ll soon be announcing our new referral program that will keep these and others coming back from more. In the meantime enjoy taking a look back through this journey with our amazing 2010 clients.
ENGAGEMENT PORTRAITS
SENIOR PORTRAITS
FAMILY PORTRAITS
MATERNITY PORTRAITS
NEWBORN & KID PORTRAITS